Evolution of the Self

On the paradoxes of personality

9 Enlightening Quotes on Narcissists—and Why

Whether as a character trait or a full-fledged personality disorder, the nature of narcissism just teems with irony and paradox. Take, for example, this ambiguous quote that, without explanation, may well seem baffling: “I thought narcissism was about self-love till someone told me there is a flip side to it. . . . It is unrequited self-love.” Read More

Narcissistic Personality Disorder


For many years I have been interested in Narcissistic Personality Disorder and the lesser known Narcissistic Victim Syndrome. I have compiled some Slideshare presentations that address Red Flags to NPD; Narcissistic Victim Syndrome and; Moving on from NPD which may be of interest to other readers. They can been seen at:




I hope they are of help.

Warm wishes,

Jeni Mawter

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Leon F. Seltzer, Ph.D., who holds doctorates in English and Psychology, is a clinical psychologist and author of Paradoxical Strategies in Psychotherapy.


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