Evolution of the Self

On the paradoxes of personality

Couples—Stop Fighting Over Money!

No question about it. Fighting about money is hazardous to your relationship. Obviously, couples fight about many things—from child rearing, to sex, to household chores, to dealing with in-laws. But, above everything else, frequency of money disputes remains the single best predictor of divorce. Read More

Come to terms

As stated, both parties need to fully understand their own relationship with money. The most helpful resource I've found for doing that is using the 9 steps outlined in "Your Money or Your Life" by Vicki Robbin. Great book, it changed my life. You can get an overview of the steps and preview the book at ZenPresence.com

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Leon F. Seltzer, Ph.D., who holds doctorates in English and Psychology, is a clinical psychologist and author of Paradoxical Strategies in Psychotherapy.

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