This is the time of year that we make New Year's resolutions. For many of us, keeping those resolutions is something of challenge. In truth, for all of those resolutions to stick, you only need one.
Systems theory-whether we are talking about interactive media, organizations or individuals-suggests that when we impose a condition on a system, the impact of that condition will diminish over time. But if we integrate that condition into the system, the system as a whole will shift and the condition will foster lasting change.
A New Year's resolution is a condition that we impose on an existing system-us. If we only impose it, but don't integrate it, it won't stick. So, the only New Year's resolution that you really need to have is to keep your New Year's resolutions.
When we impose a condition, there is an implied choice. When we choice to integrate change, we make an agreement with ourselves to maintain a different way of approaching our lives. It is a matter of living as if, instead of what if-a concept I discussed previously in Living Backward in Time: How to Set Intentions and Remain Present.
