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The Boys Club got together and said, "Let's eliminate the competition by convincing everyone that women are evil and useless. The post-modern version says "Women are evil, useless and good for only one thing"...because you can't go burning a woman at the stake any more, and Wicca are cool. This line of thinking leads back to the three major pre-orthodox Western religions -- Christianity, Islam and Judaism. Read More















The thing is, religion and
The thing is, religion and culture both assume that a woman cannot have both faith and be a sexual creature simultaneously. Religions have for centuries taught that sexuality in women was a thing to fear, a thing to repress, a thing to destroy because desire in women was bad and a tool of the devil, much like women's intellect. By making a woman into an object, as you say, and good for only one thing (and I will play polite) - as a vessel for a man's seed - you remove all trace's of god's grace from a woman. In essence, you start to dehumanize her and place her on a level lower than herself. If you remove the issue of gender from the debate, you also see this historically when countries (Japan/China, Bosnia/Serbia) invade and then attempt to enslave other countries with whom they have had a long running conflict. The loser in effect becomes a lesser being, and somehow less than human. In effect, making women "fit for only one thing" makes them less than human.
I suppose that is what bothers me so about things like Bratz dolls and, at the other end of the spectrum, Burqas. Bratz dolls tell little girls they amount to nothing more than tits and ass. Burqas send the same message, except it is said in a more insidious way.
"You are not even the sum of your parts. You are only your parts"
Exactly my point...
Michael - Interestingly,
Michael -
Interestingly, honor killings to me imply that honor can only be kept by the females of the family. This implies that the male is so weak that he cannot uphold the core values of the religion; yet simultaneously he decries the females of his family and of his religon as being weak vessels meant for subservience.
If women are the keepers of the families honor, doesn't that imply that they play a more significant role in religious and moral life? I've always wondered.
And thanks for your comments on my blog.
Wo/men's social stereotyping and/or stigmatizing
As a sociologist, (philosopher and interfaith theologian) what you say to me is and has always been obvious: regardless if it is pre-, and/or post-modern.
Both genders are socialized into stereotypes (and stigmatization) of themselves as well as the other gender, and of course transsexuals, asexuals, homsexuals and heterosexuals, etc.
Such stereotypes may vary in accordance with factors such as: different cultures, societies, socio-economic classes, education, etc, etc.
I agree with what you imply, but men are also being turned into a thing, often a sexual object. An Orthodox Jewish researcher remarked on the freedom such male stereotyping he experienced when he began to vest as an Orthodox Jew. Of course another stereotype would come into play with his vesting. As would that of Buddhist, Xtian and other monks/nuns, Muslims, and other forms of 'religious' vestment. All part of streetcred and style-warrior sociological and soico-psychological study.
HERMIT (now which stereotypes and de-individuation and -humanization types do my admittance of my own state in life call up? Especially by those uninformed about this ancient 'socio-cultural role'?
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Interesting and valid points, but...
I have to apologize. I never
I have to apologize. I never considered it even possible that men could consider themselves objectified.
I consider myself chastened.
Faulty premise...
Michael - So in essence men
Michael -
So in essence men can only be objectified in a sexual context, and even then they like it (if I extrapolate a wee bit on your comments)?
This is an interesting debate....
Jennifer
Too much...
True, too true.
True, too true. Objectification and sexualization are different topics although closely interwoven in certain debates, certainly in the twin strange bedfellows of religion and politics.
religion vs. social economics
I wonder if the shift toward objectification really had as much to do with competition amongst religious sects as it did with the prevailing social economics of the time. Sociologists tell us that when there is a shortage of women, societies become more rigid and controlling with regards to gender roles. We know that close to half of all European women in the Middle Ages died in childbirth, but could this number have been less disconcerting in the prior Roman age? Or did the cultures of conquering societies have a broader view of gender roles because conquering men had easy access to both subjugated women and their own women? It's really hard to make a case for either religion or social economics, in fact, because very few pagan societies, from Greece and Rome to the Nordic countries and Germany, had anything like a desirable gender dynamic, nor did Hindu India or Buddhist Asia. Cultures that give women an elevated role are usually small and randomly located-- in the the days of the first Christians, they included the Celts and certain tribal groups in Africa and the Americas. Mother Earth was second to her husband even in the Greco-Roman, Sumerian, and Eqyptian traditions, so why blame the Christians, Jews, and Muslims?
You misunderstood...
Definition of objectification
"Societal objectification means turning a woman into a thing. Sexual objectification, or sexualization, means turning a woman into a sexual thing."
We need better definitions than these.
The overall debate on the objectification of women ignores a lot of intricacies, which if considered might dramatically alter the conclusion.
The cognitive roots of objectification. The objective nature of sex and erotic perception. Voluntary objectification. The root of objectification. The existence of objectification that does not deny other aspects of one's nature.
All these issues, when considered, go against the presupposed conclusion. They definitely need to be addressed, because the current state of the objectification debate does a tremendous disservice to men.
Read further...
"Considerations on the Objectification and Sexualization of Wome
Michael - your article is refreshingly "right on" (I realize this is not an academic term). We need more discussion about this painful subject as from my seat in the grandstand of life, these problems appears to escalating.
Many thanks for your illumination.
You are...
...entirely too kind, but thank you. I had talked to the editors of the print magazine about exploring this further and there was a decided interest. We may get there yet! In the meantime, I'll think about expanding on this conversation.
Blessings,
Michael
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