I think for women, we not only have social pressures to settle down but our own biology eventually starts prodding us to find a mate already and get busy making babies. This can be a strong urge to fight, even when intellectually you know what you are looking for. I think it's reassuring, however, when you see happy couples that met later in life and the time before they knew each other doesn't seem like a waste of time but rather a brillliant exercise in patience. I have never seen a truly happy couple look back with any regret regarding thier unique circumstances. Even folks who are too old to have children, when truly compatible in love, don't second guess thier choice to hold out for "the one." The best gift anyone can give a child is to be in a happy and stable relationship so if that comes later or if you have to explore alternative means of concieving or adopt, it is all in the best interest of love and the human race.

This article is right to the point. Too many people are desperate to find someone, only to be 'in a relationship'. Whether it's social pressure or the person's own need for a partner, we can all feel that need from time to time and start to wonder if we're being too picky. I broke up with my boyfriend two months ago, and even though at first my self-esteem reached a very low point, I am now seeing things from a new perspective. Being single by choice shows you value yourself and know what you want and that you're able to get it. Sure it takes patience and many Saturday nights of coming home all by yourself, but if you think about it, this time you have to yourself will make you a stronger person, a person who is independen and can stand on their own feet. Besides, being with someone who is just ok and not really exciting to you will only increase the feelings of loneliness. Wating for the right person is the wise and mature thing to do.