Divorce Busting

As a long-time observer of relationships, I can tell you that, like children, marriages go through different developmental stages and predictable crises. But because people are unfamiliar with the normal hills and valleys of marriage, these predictable transitional periods are often misunderstood, causing over-reactions. Those who manage to weather these universal stormy periods usually come out the other side with greater love and commitment to their spouses. That's why I want to offer you a Marriage Map. Read More

Do you ever find yourself in the midst of heated conversation when, all of a sudden, your partner says something that just takes your breath away? But as you mull things over, you realize, "It's not what he's saying, it's how he's saying it," or "If she would just word it differently, I might be able to respond less defensively." Read More

Today, I will take out time from my marital musings to write about a personal experience so profound, that it has nearly stopped me dead in my tracks. Read More

You've heard of Maternity Leave. You may have even heard of Paternity Leave. But if you're clueless about the term, "Infidelity Leave," it's not surprising. There is no such thing. But if I had my way, there would be.

I've been working with couples on the brink of divorce for two decades. Needless to say, that means that I've become an expert on helping people heal from infidelity.