"If we are to teach real peace in this world, and if we are to carry on a real war against war, we shall have to begin with the children" - Gandhi
Gandhi knew the future of our world's peace is held in our children's hands. Educating children about the theory and practice of peace is important work. It involves penetrating the elusive concept of peace, understanding how to cultivate it in oneself and then extend such insight to others. Gandhi, I believe, would be delighted at the re-emergence of peace education in select schools today.
Peace: The definition
Peace is the inner state of calm that remains despite external circumstances. It is cultivated through the development of inner qualities that result in a peaceful state of mind. His Holiness the Dalai Lama explains that as "we feel love and kindness towards others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace."
Peace is caused. It is a simple concept with profound consequences. To teach peace to children requires that the causes of peace be understood, demonstrated by a peace role model and explained at a child's level so he or she can begin to ingest peace as a skillful path.
So what is the opposite of peace? Anger. Violence. Rage. It happens fast and without much thought. John (age 4) for example got really angry fast, began hitting his preschool buddy and bopping him over the head with a toy hammer. It was not a peaceful sight. After spending time with John teaching him about peace, how to skillfully handle his feelings and why choosing peace is smarter --- his responses didn't involve hitting. Peace education plants positive seeds (i.e. thoughts, techniques) that shift behavior towards non-violent responses.
Peace in preschool
Preschoolers want peace. Their bodies, minds and emotions are in a constant state of flux. Such children are often immediately interested in the topic when presented creatively. Peace has benefits. It feels great. It's helpful to others. It makes living a whole lot easier. Teaching preschoolers about what peace is, how to grow it and why to grow it can be both playful and practical. Plus it is "reaches" children at the right time when they are rooting their original cognitive beliefs, emotions and understanding of the world. And ultimately it gives peace a real chance.
[Note: Maureen Healy is the author of a Peace Curriculum for Preschoolers funded by The Simha Foundation. It is to be released worldwide in 2009 without cost to plant the seeds of peace.]
