Creative Development

Growing a child's unique gifts
Maureen Healy is a child development expert and author of the forthcoming book 365 Perfect Things to Say to Your Kids. See full bio

Can you hear it?

Hearing the call

It's the call of your child's unique talents.  Always is it seeking to find a safe and supportive place to shine.   Be it the beating of a drum or drawing of a butterfly.  These are the breadcrumbs of his or her brilliance.

Take the Wright Brothers for example.  At age 12 and 8 respectively they begun building toy airplanes and well, never stopped.  I dare say it was something in them beckoning to be brought to this world.  It may even emerge younger.  Picasso's first word was "Piz-Piz" short for pencil in Italian.  Oprah was nicknamed "The Preacher" by Age 2 for her notable church pew talks.

Your child need not be on the world stage but this call is universal.

In my last creativity camp, I directed each child to express their dreams & wishes in a journal.  Jacob aged 3 ½ (don't forget the ½) painted his dream job: a rescue pilot.  Where did that come from?  Or Ashley, age 8, who wrote about editing my writing (she feels she can really help me - probably!).  Or Lucas, age 5, decided to show us his musical wishes on the piano.  Without ever a lesson he played all the right keys along with my song. Hmmm.

Hints nudge us along to our child's greatest gifts.  So are you listening?  Really listening?  Observing?  It's so easy to get caught up in the holiday hub bub of presents and parties.  But are you willing to stop, drop and roll into your child's world for a moment?  Get real quiet in your mind and listen with your heart for the hints.  I believe it may be the greatest gift you get (or give) all season long!

 



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