Team.
Psychologists Tracy Veach and Jerry May describes a team as, "more than merely a group; it's a coordinated ensemble that cooperates to achieve a common goal..."
All people who achieve great things have them, even if they are behind the scenes. Politicians, authors, fighters, CEOs all have individuals, seen and unseen, who provide counseling, training and a host of other support services; including a kick in the pants if necessary.
In life, no one can survive on their own and for great accomplishments we all need people to help us along the way. But beyond the ordinary roles people play in helping one achieve a dream, sometimes we need a group of individuals specifically devoted to our cause. People who know what the mission is; know how to achieve it or have a plan; and are willing to put their time and energies into making it happen.
A great team can provide wisdom and insight; they can guide you in the right direction; and they can hold you steady when you are not at your best. A great team helps fill in the gaps in knowledge and skills you don't possess and can make sure that you will become well rounded.
Anyone who knows me understands that obtaining a doctoral degree was very important to me. However, the process was long (nearly five years) and rigorous.To outsiders and even family and friends it probably seemed as if I was in it by myself because I was always away researching or studying or writing around them. Yet, what they didn't witness was the superb team that led me through my doctoral program. I had a committee of four professors who pointed out skill sets and a knowledge base I would have to master before moving on to each level. They also provided much needed direction, counsel and tips on how to proceed through the maze that is the dissertation process.
They met with me constantly to monitor my progress and provided the necessary nudges I needed when the time arose. They even pointed me to outside experts who could further help in my journey. Without their high expectations and standards I would have never have achieved what I have thus far.
Now, as a professor, I also serve as a team member for students.
Question
So in your life, who is on your team? -- Is there something that you're attempting solo, that could be better achieved with the help of others?
If so, reconsider.
Assemble a network of people who can lead you in the right direction. A group that can support you in becoming the best you can be. Get the best people you can, give your all and let them help you lead yourself to success.
Bakari Akil II, Ph.D. is the author of Super You! 101 Ways to Maximize your Potential! You can also check out his page on Twitter.
