Years ago I heard a talk by Dr. Wayne Dyer. He was discussing the reactions we all have to traffic jams and bad drivers. He commented on how angry we get, how we hit the steering wheel or our horn, how we gesture or shake our fists at the traffic. (Even a recent Psychology Today blog post dealt with that topic.) But, as Dr. Dyer so eloquently said, "the traffic doesn't care." What a wonderful and weirdly calming thought: we can get as excited or angry as we want, but the traffic is going to be the traffic and it doesn't care. So we might as well calm down. Read More