How helpful are interventions in getting people to give up alcohol or other substances of abuse? The data are clear. And such confrontational methods can have lingering negative effects. Read More
Confrontational methods are practiced nowhere else? Ever hear of the military? And you've obviously never participated in a job performance review where serious problems had to be discussed. I agree that the substance abuse counseling field needs to be less confrontational than it normally has, but one can't always say "pretty please with sugar on top" either.
Actually performance reviews are being tested and reported as being not at all that effective as of late. And as far as the military, it may have short term gains but if you look at all the problems veterans have, high suicide,high divorce rates, high levels of disagreeableness, might be a sign it really doesnt work long term either.
The last sentence is the best!
Very well written and poignant explanation of the problem with interventions and some real solutions for a better way to communicate sobriety.
I hope you'll read my response to the article in question. I'd love to email or talk by phone if you have questions.
I think that families want their piece of flesh, and an intervention gives them that opportunity. The person with the problem can be verbally beaten to a pulp because they have it coming. To me this is the unspoken truth of interventions. We, as a society, just love getting even way too much.
Ms. Marano's musings are among the most unenlightened that I have ever seen in print! In addition to seemingly having very little understanding about the nature of addiction, she lacks even a basic understanding about intervention.
When done well (and most professional interventions are)an intervention is loving, supportive and offers a high degree of hope. Interventions are an effort to save a life or a family! They are not "gang-ups", "prejorative" and "humiliating" as she suggests.
It is Ms. Marano who is deluded. MI is an effective tool for therapy but many who suffer with the disease of addiction will never get to therapy without a loving and effective intervention!
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Hara Estroff Marano is Editor at Large of Psychology Today and author of A Nation of Wimps: The High Cost of Invasive Parenting.
When and how should we open up to loved ones?