Brainstorm

> Rest assured that post-romance romance is no less awkward for men;
> they're pretty clueless, too. But society reaches out to them and
> they get taken care of more—someone, for example, is always handing
> them the phone number of the perfect eligible woman.

Where do you daffy dames get your steady supply of absolutely nutty ideas?

I cannot conceive of where anyone would get the idea that "society reaches out to them [men] and they get taken care of more". Nobody's "always handing them the phone number of the perfect eligible woman". Men are wallflowers. Invisible.

As the rest of your piece explains, it's women who are "pretty clueless". I've been around the single's scene long enough to know just about everything almost all of you think you know about men and relationships is wrong, because you live in a feminacentric echo chamber of articles (such as this one) and books and TV shows which all consist of women knowingly telling each other how it supposedly is, though it mostly consists of people telling women what they want to hear.

So the best thing a woman could do is tune out all the self-help and advice BS, because no one wants to be around someone who thinks they're a know-it-all, but who appears to others to be totally mistaken.

Thank you so much for this wonderful article! It is exactly what I needed to read. Very, very helpful.