Michael Batshaw LCSW on February 15, 2010
Do I have “healthy doubt” or “unhealthy doubt” about my partner’s suitability for me?Doubt, uncertainty and the feeling of not knowing for sure is not a problem! In fact, contrary to what we might at first think, experiencing such feelings can be the greatest path toward intuitive certainty. To this end, my Zen Master would often say, “don’t know”, is closest to “enlightenment”, or intuitive understanding. What did he mean by this and how might such understanding help us attain greater clarity in our relationships...
Do I have “healthy doubt” or “unhealthy doubt” about my partner’s suitability for me?Doubt, uncertainty and the feeling of not knowing for sure is not a problem! In fact, contrary to what we might at first think, experiencing such feelings can be the greatest path toward intuitive certainty. To this end, my Zen Master would often say, “don’t know”, is closest to “enlightenment”, or intuitive understanding. What did he mean by this and how might such understanding help us attain greater clarity in our relationships...