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Top Tip for Midlife Mom's Makeover? Fix Attitude

Middle school girls gave this mom a midlife, love life makeover from inside out

My midlife makeover/dating coach is a 6th grade girl

Midlife, post-divorce Mom needs an updated look. Middle schoolers to the rescue!

A team of middle school girls gives one midlife mom life lessons in Girl World self-esteem

While I'd hoped my team of middle school girl midlife makeover coaches would have quickly forgotten their project of offering me a full-life refreshening, alas, they remain dedicated to the cause.

Our first session began with high hopes, and ended in everyone feeling there was simply too much to be done so they'd better regroup and make a plan. As you may recall, a certain divorced, working/writing/teaching/mothering midlfe mom accepted an offer from a gentleman caller. Having not been on a, how do you say it… DATE in 17 years, our beleaguered midlife mom made the harrowing mistake of asking her daughter's 6th grade crew for a few pointers.

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Talk about death by 1,000 cuts. What began as a mother's desperate attempt to find a way into her daughter's world, has now morphed into complete folly.

In our first installment, Seeking a Midlife Love Life? Best Dating Coach - Middle School Girls!,I thought, what a great idea, ask my daughter and her pals how to get ready for my first date in 17 years. What could be bad?

Now, it turns out, I need a makeover from the inside out. Here’s what I learned: Best Tip for Midlife Divorce and Dating Makeover? Attitude Adjustment

Stay tuned for Midlife Makeover: What Not to Wear (like, ever)

Read more tales from The Divorce Diaries:

Best Tip for Midlife Divore and Dating Makeover? Attitude Adjustment

Seeking a Midlife Love Life? Best Dating Coach - Middle School Girls!,

Dating Over 40: Midlife Dating…How Bad Can it Really Be?

Getting a Divorce? Expert Says Ask Your Children How to Parent

A Bill of 33 Rights for Children of Divorce

Divorce Diaries: A Bill of Rights for Ex Wives

Parenting After Divorce? Expert Taught You Must Listen to Your Children's Pain

Nobody Told Me Sharing Custody Meant Sharing My Daughter!

Divorce Diaries: 7 Life Lessons on Midlife Break-ups

Facebook now a divorce lawyer's best weapon

Sex with your Ex? Why Divorce Sex is so Good and so Bad

15 Tough Truths about Divorce

Can Divorce be the Best Part of Your Marriage? 10 Tips on remaining sane and humane

Who Gets Custody of the Friends after Divorce 

Pamela Cytrynbaum teaches at Northwestern University's Medill School of Journalism.

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