i love this new perspective for dealing with emotional problems, i wish that you write another article covering the same topic and giving more details about it

And I'm just blogging about leaving Palin & Obama action figures lying around the house in compromising position over at at www.naughtybrideguide.com. You know, in case anyone wants a laugh. So... ok, you're better than The Naughty Bride. But more to the point, you're better than the Naughty Bride's marriage therapist, who totally counseled improved communication and "archaic" issue resolution when what we really needed was a redo on the whole what-have-you-done-for/to-me-lately paradigm. Now, that doesn't mean TNB has it all wired now -- far from it -- but the challenge to stay connected is the biggest and best question for brides and grooms everywhere. Someday TNB hopes Dr. Stosny will blog about ways to seek change -- rather than accomodation, real change -- while maintaining the "thank you for being you" position. As David Schnarch writes so elegantly, normal marital sadism cuts direct request Right Out. Dr?