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Confessions of a Recovered Insight Junky

Junkies are often self-medicating. So are insight junkies. Recovery often comes less from the insights than from looking squarely at our hunger for them. Meditate on the pain you're self-medicating, and then generalize from that pain to the pain we all feel, given the human condition. Doing so has spared me lots of time and expense on therapy in recent decades. Read More

It is important not to

It is important not to conflate true spiritual insight with mundane psychological insight.

To realize at a deep level that all phenomena are empty of inherent existence is a tremendous relief from suffering.

Suffering/stress/discomfort exists in all sorts of forms in this life, and there is no shame in acknowledging it.

I think distinguishing useful

I think distinguishing useful from not-useful insight is crucial and we'll all have different opinions about what's useful, which is a lot of where human debate goes on.

I debated the point you're making in this article a few weeks ago:

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ambigamy/201402/psychological-clutch...

Thanks for writing.

Jeremy

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Jeremy Sherman is an evolutionary epistemologist studying the natural history and practical realities of decision making.

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