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Palin, "The Secret," and our high-stakes referendum on two definitions of ‘real'

Charming, They say--personable, one of us, real. To me she's cloying and hopelessly artificial.

Still, I watch this election from several perspectives:

Mine: What I want (this perspective comes easiest).

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Daniel Dennett also quotes

Daniel Dennett also quotes this comment of Rove's in a talk at the Atheist Alliance Convention 2007 http://www.atheistalliance.org/
See also The Trap, The Power of Nightmares, and The Century of the Self (documentaries by Adam Curtis)on Rovian reality.
For Palin, maybe Stepford Wives?

Yes on Adam Curtis

I show the Adam Curtis movies in my sociology courses. Really fine work there. It's great that they're available for free download on google video.

Thanks for adding the refs.

Jeremy

Palin

Funny...when I see your pic and read your work you seem "creepy"to me. That's my perspective. It's sad how some people can rejoice/wish for others to "fall hard" because they have different ideas. There is a famous saying somewhere that says "treat others as you would want to be treated" I am happy that the Palin haters didn't get their wish on thursday. By the way, I'm a middle-class, hardworking mother of two and a working RN who would love to see Sarah as VP and there are a lot more of us out there! So I say, YOU GO GIRL! and to you I say don't wish bad things on people because it might come back your way. Have a nice day.

Double standard moralizing is the point

You may have missed my point. I wished she fell certainly not because she's a woman but because she does represent the Rovian reading of reality which I think will be bad for RN's and children. But time will tell.

You imply that I'm among the haters in the world and that you represent a different kind of person one who is tolerant loving and accepting of people regardless of what they think. Certainly not well represented in what Palin has said so far of the opposition.

We all have strong opinions. I've heard yours. Tolerance is treated as a absolute virtue but it can't be. If it is then the admonition becomes that one should always be intolerant of intolerance. A standard stonewalling move made by people on the left and right is to protest against intolerance as you have protested mine here. How can I be so intolerant? I could say the same about Palin who is radically intolerant and proud of it. The question of course is always one of what one should and shouldn't be tolerant of. Would it be wrong for the North to be intolerant of the South's commitment to slavery? Is it wrong to be intolerant of Hitler? We pick our battles and in the end time will tell. We'll know what works and what doesn't. The Right in recent years has accumulated various ways of stopping debate when it gets uncomfortable. Try the various ways in which Palin dismissed Biden for living in the past. The past is all we have to go on. She knows that. She harked back all the time to McCain and Obama's records. But when she didn't like references to Bush or the Republican strategies of the past which she has heartily endorsed for the most part, she argued as though there's a moral principle that one should never do that. It's a double standard touted as virtue itself and it's creepy. But more to the point look where it has gotten us. A nation under the spell of double standards touted as universal virtues has been led by Republicans to its current sorry state. Dwelling in the future, not the past I do wish her failure in this election just as she and you wish Obama failure. So, no I'm not tolerant of double-standard moralizing selectively disguised as universal moralizing. Instead feel free to be intolerant you're way. I'll continue to be intolerant my way and its a good thing we live in a democracy where such conflicting views can be vented.

Your Ego-Syntonic Intra-Cranial Dyspepsia is Showing

Amazing! A paradoxical amalgamation of turgid inanity and reactionary vacuity!

Your Palin rants are indeed the "Olestra" of this blog, intellectually oily with no nutritional value. I love guilt-free second helpings!

The suggestive links to slavery apologists and Hitler is just too rich! And that smoothly segues to...

Beating down a sweet little nurse because she is going to vote Republican! Evil and nefarious by association for sure!

And "I'm not tolerant of double-standard moralizing selectively disguised as universal moralizing." is a magnificently naive recognition that politicians have a marked tendency to act like politicians. (Even the senatorial gasbags that you personally sanctify.)

But you know maintaining this level of creative, but crazed sanctimonious opporbrium until the election is going to exhaust you. Perhaps you should check with Dr. Kramer for a sedative.

Palin

First of all, I never implied that you wanted Palin to fall because she is a woman-your thoughts not mine [freudian slip?] and I always aspire to be tolerant, loving and accepting of people regardless of what they think because dare i say it? all are GODS children. I attempt to take issue with an action or an idea. Your characterization of her as "creepy" has a negative connotation and is insulting and since your work is published for all the world to see you have a responsiblity to attack an idea or action, not the person. It is Obamas ideas of what is right that I have an issue with and I personally think he is a very caring and intelligent person. In my opinion anyone who would call him 'creepy' in a public forum would be acting irresponsibly and I wouldln't take this person as seriously. Regarding Palin taking issue with Bidens frequent reference to Bush and the republican admin, McCain is not Bush and Palin is not Cheney and the attempt to characterize them in this way is inaccurate although I understand the tactic being used in an attempt to win the election. I wholeheartedly agree with you-we need to show intolerance with the wrongs in our world but there is a correct way to address these. To buy the idea of intolerance being a good thing, one must believe in a moral correctness. In Sarah palins intolerance I have yet to hear her resort to name-calling.

Must have been fun to toss

Must have been fun to toss that off too. Of course politicians spin and we do too. You're very good at it, but what's your point? Do you have a critique of my argument or are you simply arguing that I'm fulminating without an argument? I'd be interested in your critique of my argument regarding the two definitions of reality if you've got one.

Jeremy

Hazard Avoidance

I'd really love to. But I have this thing about limiting those kinds of dialogs to rational opponents.

But what the heck? You're living large at this site. Exchanging like minded love letters (er...hate mail) with your psychologist turned political commentator pals. Everybody here is all warm and cuddly with their shared contempt.

Top off the ego by brainwashing some star dazzled students during the week. Ego-Syntonia is perfect for an academic. You got it made.

But why don't you lay off benevolent nurses?

That Woman and Reality

I like your article. Yes, there are different definitions of reality. But, as Alexander McCall Smith's tiny prodigy Bernie wonders--do people really not believe in the objective reality of the Bernoulli principle when they are flying on a plane?

I have been thinking about why this woman punches all my buttons. I finally realized that she reminds me of the little fundamentalist girls in grade school who cheerfully told me I was going to hell. Actually, they were cheerfully wishing me off to hell because I didn't share their world view. That is pretty nasty stuff and one reason I look back at those years without nostalgia. But, that behavior wasn't limited to little fundamentalist girls. A friend heard the VP candidate for the first time and said that she sounded like one of the "mean girls" at her school. She also has the unearned arrogant confidence of a some pretty girls. (Not all, but some.)

So, I put the energy from my push buttons to good use. I donated more money to Obama and started canvassing. :-) Where or not people perceive her as "real," she's a nightmare to me. Yup, I don't use her name. Sort of like how people perceive a certain character in Harry Potter--but that's the other person you mentioned--you know the master strategist behind GWB.

Palin

I am shocked and appalled at the reaction to this woman by other women. I can understand an expression of strong dislike/disagreement with her value system but the personal attacks by supposed feminists/womens right advocates. We really have not come as far as we think we have. From the woman on a liberal talkradio show laughing along with co-hosts making derogatory sexual remarks to my mother who said Palin got to be governor of Alaska because of her good looks-unbelievable! Some of us still have a problem with intelligent attractive women. I will forever ? the sincerity of women who claim to stand for equality. I would have to question further because the hypocrisy displayed by some women has been very disheartening.

Laura, obviously we do have

Laura, obviously we do have different backgrounds and leanings, and obviously at one level we both honor each other's preferences. A live and let live strategy is the preferred strategy isn't it? Problem is, it's easiest to apply it when the consequences of our choices don't affect each other. I mean we can be completely tolerant of people's actions at a distance, but if we live with them, then there is going to be some give and take, some situations in which we'll struggle against each other, competing for dominance on one issue or another. To take an RN example: A young child has a potentially terminal disease. There are two mutually exclusive risky and potentially life saving courses of treatment and the parents disagree about which one to adopt. Not adopting one is very likely to lead to death. This is an example of a situation in which "agreeing to disagree" is not an option. Yes the two parents can love and respect each other, honoring each other's preferences, but in a situation in which you can't employ both options and the consequences are shared, you've got to have debate.

Twice you've been shocked and dismayed at the lack of tolerance from those of us who oppose Palin. Imagine if the husband in the case above, told the wife that it was shocking how negative she was being about his preferred treatment. She should be more tolerant he says. If I were that wife, I would feel some ambivalence at that point. On the one hand I hate to be intolerant. On the other hand, his argument for tolerance seems misplaced. Tolerant yes but he's in the middle of a productive argument with me, and his intolerance of my intolerance seems more like a way to win than something either of us should practice. I call them butterfly punches. I'll post an article about them today.

Honestly Laura you seem no more tolerant of opposition to Palin than I or other's seem tolerant of her. And that's fine. We're in a high-stakes intimate debate in this nation about two very different directions to go.

I did note in your "shocked and appalled" reaction to Clare that your focus was very much on Palin (You go girl) issues. So my Freudian slip or not, you've made it clear that her gender is an issue for you. I've had more women bosses than men bosses. I'm kind of surprised by how much affirmative action the Republicans are invoking in their support for Palin. Especially since high on McCain's agenda would be replacing the liberal supreme court justices so as to eliminate affirmative action once and for all. I was a major Hillary supporter because I liked what she stood for. I will not forget that we're talking about decision makers not genders or genitalia in this election. Why not focus on Palin's political views? Why say she deserves to be treated more kindly? Because she's a woman? "Mean girls" is less the point than simply "Mean."

I find it amusing that in the heap of content-free rhetoric supplied by Steve M is the argument that I shouldn't pick on the little RN. Because you're a woman? I honor you as an a thinking debating equal. It's that double standard morality thing I keep coming back to. Use whatever moral argument comes easiest to hand to shame people who disagree with you. Don't worry at all about being consistent in your application of it.

May we decide what's best for our nation and your children guided by one objective: Doing what's best for them.

The Government accounting office estimates that with McCain's take plan the richest .1% of the population will get a tax cut of 12% whereas with the Obama plan they'll get a 1% tax increase. That's one of many many factors to consider. But I worry for people who are taken in by Palin's comments such as:

"You know what? It's time that normal Joe Six-Pack American is finally represented in the position of vice presidency.' I think that that's kind of taken some people off guard, and they're out of sorts, and they're ticked off about it, but it's motivation for John McCain and I to work that much harder to make sure that our ticket is victorious, and we put government back on the side of the people of Joe Six-Pack like me, and we start doing those things that are expected of our government, and we get rid of corruption, and we commit to the reform that is not only desired, but is deserved by Americans."

Jeremy

Hazard Avoidance II

First of all, the sick child example that you presented is a patently false analogy. Governance is not 0/1. The United States is enormous and its government is a Leviathan that includes three co-equal branches of government. Countless complex trades have to be made in order for it to work at all.

Your cranial machinations have distorted what has historically been a once every four year collective decision into an artificial binary outcome of Armageddon or bliss. And that perverse level of hyperbolic thinking gives you what you believe to be the warrant to demonize anyone who has different political sensibilities.

Of course you're radical demonization leads naturally to the hyper-exaggerated end states of acceptance of slavery and Nazism by those who disagree with you politically. In your corrupted mental model, Sarah Palin is not just the governor of Alaska, she's also a Gauleiter. And our dear nurse is a member of the Sturm Abteilung by the fact that she votes Republican and goes to church on Sunday. So yeah, I'll stand up for any decent person who is painted with that kind of ugly, hate-filled brush.

This piece of yours is simply a weak attempt at camouflaging and backfilling what you have exposed yourself to be. A purveyor of a wretched excess of intolerance. Sure I have political sensibilities and a temperament that extends beyond the boilerplate of both parties. However, there are some people who are so self-deluded in their ego-syntonic certitude, discussing alternative political propositions with them would be as sensible as discussing them with a rock.

intresting

I am a Canadian, and I currently live in China, so although your politics affects me. I have no say or influence over it. I am a pure cynic when it comes to politics, and actually favour the Communist system when I see how elections are done in the USA.

After reading Jeremy's writing for a while and looking at his pattern of thinking. It is interesting to see how other article he has written have played out over the course of the discussion here. The concept of levels, of deciding who is right. Decided vs deciding. I don't agree with everything he says, but at least it makes me think about my own perspectives. I like to be challenged to think in a new way.

"America is the oldest young nation. Young in the fact that it has not been around very long, old in the fact that it will not last"
- G.K. Chesterton - "Orthodoxy"

Good luck with the elections in November. Please choose the lesser of two evils. Because I don't think 'good' describes any of your options.

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