Addiction in Society

Addiction--the thematic malady for our society--entails every type of psychological and societal problem.
Stanton Peele, Ph.D., J.D., has been researching and treating addiction since he wrote Love and Addiction (1975). He also wrote 7 Tools to Beat Addiction. See full bio

Comments on "Casual Cruelty Towards Children (Which Doesn't Stop There)"

Casual Cruelty Towards Children (Which Doesn't Stop There)

I've written about the cruelty casually visited on children daily on TV reality shows (like Maury Povitch). I've written about celebrity biographies that are amazing in the degree to which women tolerate abuse (like Pattie Boyd). A new biography combines the two in equal amounts. Read More

Interesting

Thanks for this. I wouldn't read the book, but I feel I've got the good parts for free. One quibble: you write, "Allegra's mother, Ricki Soma - a beautiful, talented woman, wife to John Huston - died when Allegra was 4, having failed to establish a career or a successful marriage (she and Huston had an "arrangement," where each took other lovers)."

Are your readers to take it that a successful marriage cannot, by definition, include such "arrangements?" If so, boy have I got a book for you to read!

Seriously, do you know about the psychological mind-f**k that is Jack Nicolson's childhood?

It wasn't fun

Huston was not good mate material: "He was unfaithful, egocentric, impatient, judgmental, cuttingly sarcastic, and a gambler." Cici was his last wife -- a marriage that didn't last long, and which left her hating him. He also beat Allegra's mother. They lived apart (Allegra wasn't actually Huston's blood, although he treated - and ignored - her like his real children).

In place of her marriage, "Mum" had a series of unstatisfying affairs: "being in love is a painful maladay for me. . . a sickness which I shall get over, as indeed, I have before" although she welcomed her affairs as "a [temporary] state of blessedness - all the anguish worthwhile for the heightened sensitivity." Some reckoned her death in a higway accident driving alone to be a suicide.

Post new comment

The content of this field is kept private and will not be shown publicly.
  • Web page addresses and e-mail addresses turn into links automatically.
  • Allowed HTML tags: <a> <em> <strong> <cite> <code> <ul> <ol> <li> <dl> <dt> <dd>
  • Lines and paragraphs break automatically.

More information about formatting options


Subscribe to Addiction in Society

Find a Therapist

Search our customized Directory for a licensed professional near you.

Current Issue

Everyday Creativity

How to start living creatively and reap the benefits.