Psych Basics

Self-Control
Impulsivity, Anger Management, Discipline, Willpower

Self-control is what separates humans from our ancient ancestors and the rest of the animal kingdom, thanks to our large prefrontal cortex. Rather than respond to immediate impulses, we can plan, we can evaluate alternate actions, and we can refrain from doing things we'll regret. And there are ways to build your wisdom and willpower.

Regulating Behavior

Baby Steps to Grown-Up Control

Flexing your dieting muscle.

by David Adler

Self-regulation failure (Part 1): Goal setting and monitoring

Procrastination: Quintessential self-regulation failure

by Timothy A. Pychyl, Ph.D. in Don't Delay

Building a Better Self

Feeding your diet for self-control.

by Hara Estroff Marano

Before "Simon Says": Where Does Self-Regulation Come From?

Comforting babies may help their later math performance.

by Jean Mercer, Ph.D. in Child Myths

The Limits of Self-Control

Want to quit smoking? Pick up a chocolate habit.

by Kelly McGonigal, Ph.D. in The Science of Willpower

You Wear Me Out

How do other people help, and hurt, our own self-control?

by Josh Ackerman, Ph.D. in Coordination Games

Mind Your Body: Making Foresight 20/20

Connect with your future self.

by Matthew Hutson

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Failures of Impulse Control

How Do Obsessive Compulsive People Think?

Fear of your thoughts and sensations.

by Robert L. Leahy, Ph.D. in Anxiety Files

Quirky Minds: Hold Me Back

Some people are prisoners of their impulses.

by William Lee Adams,Matthew Hutson

Field Guide to the Obsessive-Compulsive: Famously Fussy

It's OK to be a little picky.

by Joshua Kendall

Why Are You So Impulsive?

Self-regulation and symptoms of impulsivity.

by Timothy A. Pychyl, Ph.D. in Don't Delay

Are You a Risk Taker?

Why some of us prefer to bungee jump through life.

by Marvin Zuckerman

Beauty Beat: Lust Now Pay Later

Arousal could send you on a spending spree.

by Matthew Hutson

Field Guide to the Hypomanic: Hothead of State

Rahm Emanuel is Obama's army of one.

by John Gartner

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Anger Management

The Lion Tamer

Steven Stosny defuses rage by teaching people how to connect.

by Cecilia Capuzzi Simon

Controlling Anger

How to keep anger from eroding your life.

by Hara Estroff Marano

Anger Management Failures

Don't date someone you meet in anger management class.

by Steven Stosny in Anger in the Age of Entitlement

See Also

Self-Control Tests

Anger Test - Abridged

Is your temper under control?
Locus of Control

Are you taking charge of your life?
Procrastination - Abridged

How putting off tomorrow impacts your life.
Setting Goals

Are you closer to your dreams, or lost in frustration?
More Tests

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