Ellen J. Langer

The negative language that we use to describe cancer could lead a patient down a deadly road—even when in remission.
The joy of giving. When we love, we give.
Reflects on how people must view negative experiences. Differences on the belief of people on bad experiences; Misconceptions on hope; Disadvantages of delaying gratification.
In order to forgive, we must first blame someone for an action we see as negative. Instead of thinking "I'm right and you're wrong," we should look at the situation from the other person's perspective.
Discusses the differences between self-respect and self-esteem. Explanation on esteeming anything and respecting something; Test of self-respect; Advantages of self-respect.
Find out why we should all separatethe people from the jobs they do.
Examines why people experience frustration. Causes of frustration; How an individual can control his actions.
Presents an article about pleasure and luxury in life. Criteria for considering something a luxury; Psychological significance of luxury and vacation; Importance of novelty in the psychological and physical well-being.
Defends the failure of people to predict the future. Confusion between prediction and hindsight; How psychologists predict an outcome.
Explaining behavior less abstractly may give you more control over your life. "We are very good at finding reasons for what we do, but not very good at doing what we have reasons for."

The real test of friendship may be when someone's not in need.

Last summer, psychologist Ellen J. Langer, Ph.D., found out she can paint. Now she's spreading the word that anyone can tap into their creative self.

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