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At the hearing, even Donald's lawyer admitted "this is not about people making a small amount of money." Indeed, despite her contractual right to alimony, the millions Ivana netted in her divorce made her countersuit against Donald for non-payment of alimony look almost laughable. "I'm financially secure," she is quoted in countless articles and talk-show interviews reprinted in a bulging sheaf of legal papers Donald's lawyer toted to the hearing. "I don't need a man to pay my bills. I need a man only for love, friendship, and companionship. I don't want to be without a man in my life, but I don't need a man to take care of me.'

A reminder of women's dependent status, the term "alimony," referring to the award of financial aid, is seldom used anymore in divorce settlements. By contrast, "cohabit" is a relatively new term in divorce-law lingo. It was meant to express the law's supposed acceptance of changed lifestyles stemming from new sexual and social freedoms. For example, the law no longer expects brides to be virgins.

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But as lawyers for Ivana and Donald agree, the law is "not clear and unambiguous" on cohabiting. It is understood by lawyers and laymen to mean "living together," but until the hearing, I had not realized how vaguely defined this widely practiced concept is in law-which, as one lawyer reminded me, "is always at least 40 years behind the rest of society."

Ivana and Donald's failure to specify in their settlement precisely what they meant by cohabit-as in perhaps "to live together for a period of at least six months"-makes the interpretation of cohabiting in their case unusually problematic.

Worse yet, as Judge Phyllis Gangel-Jacob noted, the word is really a misnomer in Trump v. Trump. Ivana and her alleged cohabitee, Riccardo Mazzucchelli, have too many roofs between them to fit the basic common sense and legal definition of habitually dwelling together under one roof. "Both seem to be world travelers on a regular basis," the judge said in a masterful understatement. "So it is unlikely they'd be under the same roof."

Ivana's lawyer, Robert Stephen Cohen, accuses Donald of "trumping" up the cohabiting charge to duck any further financial payments to Ivana, and says she and Mazzucchelli have merely "dated" no more than five times. But Ivana's own words are more ambiguous. She says she met the 48-year-old Mazzucchelli in London, a month or so after her divorce, through a mutual friend who thought Ivana could be a "reference for possible business contacts he was seeking in Eastern Europe.'

Since then, Ivana admits that almost everywhere she went, Mazzucchelli, a "wealthy Italian divorcee" and "owner of a Zambia-based construction firm;' was sure to go-though not always on the same day or for as long.

In the next 10 months-in which Donald insists they were cohabiting, but Ivana says they were merely "attempting to establish the parameters of what has been only a periodic (dating) relationship"Mazzucchelli escorted Ivana on foot or ski boot, in his Rolls or her Mercedes, by Concorde or by yacht, to dinners, balls, charity events, the movies, ski slopes, the opera, the theater, and to Ivana's book-signing parties during her whirlwind, month-long promotion tour last spring.

During these outings, Mazzucchelli entertained Ivana, and she Mazzucchelli-Donald says in her bedroom, Ivana says in her guest room or guest quarters, often as one of her 10 or more house guests-in her rent-free New York, Greenwich, and Florida homes; at her rented apartment in London, her rented house in the South of France, her rented Swiss chalet in Celerina; in Mazzucchelli's homes in Rome and Prague; in their separate hotels in Prague, Venice, London, Aspen, and New York.

The lawyers disagreed on whether all this togetherness on the run meant Ivana and Mazzucchelli were cohabiting. But I was amazed that at the end of one of Mazzucchelli's days-far longer than the head nanny's grinding 6:30 A.M. to 9:30 P.M. stint-he had the energy just to hold himself upright, let alone hold himself out as a husband in all but name, which is how, I learned, the law basically looks at cohabiting.

Along with these frequent travels, Donald and his lawyers cite other "evidence" of Mazzucchelli's alleged cohabitation with Ivana. This includes Mazzucchelli's occasional chauffeuring and chaperoning the Trump children, flying them to Disney World, buying them gifts-including "some kind of pet believed to be a turtle"cooking, and even raking leaves with Ivana and the children at the Greenwich mansion-perhaps the only non-Donald-financed activity left for Ivana to tackle.

As added proof of the alleged cohabiting, Donald's lawyer told the judge at the hearing that Mazzucchelli has his own key to the Trump triplex, enters unannounced without being logged in in the lobby, or without ringing; gets his mail, and keeps "his clothes, perfumes, and European vitamins" in the apartment, pays for Ivana's vacations and the pasta he cooks for her and her family-in contrast to Ivana, who says, "I don't cook in the Trump Tower apartment"-and generally treats Trump Tower like it is his own."

He also claims that by having given her a 10-carat canary diamond ring from Tiffany, Mazzucchelli is engaged to Ivana, and is "frequently intimate" with her, and that along with their having been glimpsed "hugging, kissing, and holding hands," Mazzuccheli has been seen on "many occasions walking out of Ms. Trump's bedroom early in the morning wearing nothing but a robe.'

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