Relationships

The Lessons of Love

One thing we've learned about love so far: Those who fall in love most readily are those with a history of insecure attachment.

By Beth Livermore, published on March 01, 1993 - last reviewed on October 01, 2009

(what men like, in (what women like, in

order of importance) order of importance)

taking walks together taking walks together

kissing flowers

candle-lit dinners kissing

cuddling candle-lit dinners

hugging cuddling

flowers declaring "I love you"

holding hands love letters

making love slow dancing

love letters hugging

sitting by the fireplace giving surprise gifts

PHOTOS (6): (MARIO RUIZ)

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