Relationships

Friends with Money

What happens when one friend has more cash than the other? How to handle a cash imbalance.

By Emma Johnson, published on May 01, 2007 - last reviewed on June 03, 2009
  • Be sensitive to the idea that your well-intentioned generosity might be perceived as patronizing or controlling.
  • If your friend is uncomfortable, start the dialogue. Remind them of how much you value the friendship and that no sum of money will change that.
  • Continue to enjoy the activities on which the friendship was built. If you both looked forward to brunch at the corner deli, keep the tradition alive.
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