So-called geniuses are not only off-the-chart smart, they also know how to pose, says Martin Seligman. You can learn to dominate and to set a tone, to take charge of a meeting or presentation and to get your way using intellectual bravado.
When Lee Iacocca worked for Robert McNamara at Ford Motor Company in the 1950s, he tried imitating his mentor's style of summarizing—numbering his points to make any argument sound more emphatic.
According to Iacocca, "McNamara would say, 'I'm going to give you five good reasons why you don't know what in the hell you're talking about,' and then he'd tick them off." This can backfire. "When I tried that," Iacocca recalled, "I couldn't remember what the hell my fourth point was."
Sometimes the only way to learn from a master, says University of Michigan psychologist Chris Peterson, is to just "shut up and listen."
Inspire, Don't Perspire!
What to do when someone seemingly smarter than you holds forth at a business meeting or over dinner? Keep cool and don't back down.
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The Extrovert Advantage
"Extroverts automatically are viewed as more intelligent," says Simonton, "whether they are or not."










