Backlash in the Burbs

In an America that is far more diverse than in the past, it's not clear what organic lines new communities can grow along. Traditional neighborhoods wove people together in economic interdependence. Shopkeepers, schoolteachers, doctors and residents were all deeply involved in the local society.

New communities like Ladera tend to be exclusive, points out Tedd McDonald, associate professor of psychology at Boise State University. "They are highly segregated socioeconomically and racially, financially inaccessible to a major portion of the population." That can foster the wrong sense of community—what UCLA urban planner Angelika Lehrer calls "an exclusionary notion of community." Heather Parker felt it. Much as she loved the initial flurry of socializing, it rattled her husband every time he returned from his travels. He's a blue-collar guy, and he felt awkward hanging out with the other husbands, who were "office guys," explains Parker. "Ladera kind of forces everyone to be the same, and not everyone wants to be the same," she says.

New developments such as Ladera may even set residents up for disappointment. People come looking for what's marketed as a sense of safety but is "proxy for all their needs for connection," McDonald finds. "People are looking for meaning and purpose." Intelligently designed communities have been shown to increase community feeling among residents. But some needs are deeper, says the Boise psychologist, and "the infrastructure of people's lives is not there anymore to fulfill those needs. Familial closeness provides the fundamental support we need, but families today are scattered. Communities can provide a manufactured network, but it may not be as reliable."

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Forsyth calls it "new-town blues." She finds that many people are drawn to new developments because they are marketed as a way to start fresh. "They move to solve their problems but that doesn't happen." Marriages don't automatically get better, and isolated people may still feel lonely. Disillusionment sets in when residents slowly realize that "a development is in fact just a collection of houses and not a magic salve."

McDonald notes that contemporary life is evolving in such a way that place identity is no longer even likely. Life with children is much more difficult today, for example. "There are changing expectations. Being a good parent increasingly takes you out of the neighborhood to get children to the activities they specialize in. You don't spend time at home engaged in civic affairs."

Ultimately, what makes New Urbanist communities like Ladera most exciting may be their willingness to experiment with a revised balance of community and individual interests. For many Americans they may be the homiest way to curb the isolating excesses of individualism.

Sarah Elizabeth Richards is a journalist based in New York City.

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