Choices: Lost in the Aisles

Sydney De'Vaughn flips open one of the dozens of cell phones spread like a hardware buffet across the counters of a Manhattan Cingular store. "I got my first cell-phone plan on an impulse—I didn't have a chance to look around," he says. "Now I know what I want—but do I really know what I want?"

Now, phone customers can take their numbers with them if they change providers. But is more flexibility really what we need? Already, choosing phone service involves a bewildering set of decisions: peak minutes and off-peak; analog or digital service; text messaging and camera capabilities; an array of colors and vast ring-tone libraries; recharging equipment and battery types; phones with Web access and phones that act as walkie-talkies.

All this decision making makes us unhappy, argues Swarthmore College psychologist Barry Schwartz in his book The Paradox of Choice. Options overload applies to everything from picking extracurricular activities for toddlers to buying jeans. The result: A society of stressed-out and dissatisfied consumers.

Obviously, having no choices at all can make life unfulfilling. But Schwartz argues that in the United States, consumer options have proliferated far beyond the happiness threshold. People faced with too many alternatives waste time pondering insignificant purchases and then are apt to second-guess their decisions.

More data doesn't help, either. "The more information people were given about different brands of beer or cereal, the worse they did in terms of choosing well," says Jacob Jacoby, a marketing professor at New York University's Stern School of Business, who was one of the first to demonstrate that too much choice is a bad thing.

David Myers, author of The American Paradox: Spiritual Hunger in an Age of Plenty, points to a study showing that people are happier with irrevocable choices. In our minds, a dress with a no-return policy fits beautifully, while one that could easily be exchanged just doesn't hang as nicely. In a world full of options and exit plans, each choice is tinged with the fear that we could have found something better.

People who examine every possibility thoroughly are the unhappiest of all, says Schwartz. Those who apply the standard of "good enough" are more content. To cell-phone-plan shoppers, Schwartz advises, "If you have a techie friend, call him and ask which one to choose. Will he choose the 'perfect' plan for you? No, but you won't waste two weeks researching them."

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By Carlin Flora

Originally published in Psychology Today Magazine

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