Diabetics in Denial

Stephen Furst, the actor who portrayed the portly freshman Flounder in Animal House, was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes at age 17 and promptly slipped into a period of denial that lasted 23 years.

"I didn't see any complications. The consequences were not horrific enough for me," says Furst, who wrote the book Confessions of a Couch Potato about his battle to lose weight.

Diabetics are unable to produce or use insulin, a hormone that converts food into energy. It is the sixth leading cause of death in the U.S. and is a stealthy disease with symptoms that may be easy to ignore. Yet the perils of doing so are great. "Many people can just fool themselves and say, 'I don't have it,'" says Marilyn Ritholz, a psychologist at the Joslin Diabetes Center at Harvard University.

Sufferers often fear stigmatization because the illness is closely linked with obesity, Ritholz says. Others are so afraid of the disease's myriad complications, including kidney disease, stroke, blindness, heart disease and circulatory problems, that they take no action, even though treatment could prevent many of these problems. Depression can cause diabetics to avoid making changes—they are known to be depressed at twice the rate of nondiabetics.

Diabetics also grieve the loss of their former lifestyle to the constant blood testing, restricted diets, timed meals, medications and daily exercise required to keep the disease in check. "It complicates everything you do. You don't have the same freedoms you had before. That's a realization that's hard to fathom," says Philip Raskin, a doctor and diabetes expert at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center in Dallas. Furst, was motivated to begin treatment and lose 140 pounds after his foot almost required amputation. (Circulatory problems common to diabetics had caused a small cut to become dangerously infected.) "It's an incredible hardship, but the alternative is being in a wheelchair and blind," Furst says of finally coming to terms with his diabetes. "I wish I'd taken steps 25 years ago."

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