Advice: Why Can't He Get a Date?

I am a 50-year-old male, semi-retired and financially secure. People say I look like a 40-year-old and have the body of a 25-year-old, as I really do take care of myself. I am a bit of a romantic and have been told I am good-looking. So why can't I find a date?

It takes more than a body and a bank balance to interest most women nowadays. Contemporary women (and men) want a genuine relationship;someone with whom to share the burdens and joys of life, a true soul mate. While abs and assets are nice, interests and values matter, too. They're the means by which people connect.

Perhaps you are strutting around so pleased with your pecs and your checks that you are giving off the unmistakable vibe of self-absorption, while women are seeking to make contact with a man of sensitivity, intelligence, wit and kindness;no signs of which you display.

And exactly where are you looking? Perhaps you should check out online dating sites. Most enable you to post a profile describing yourself, which gives someone more than a skin-deep glimpse of you.

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