Married Men Travel More

Single men may be lustful, but they have less wanderlust than their married brethren. Bachelors are also more xenophobic than married men, and women of any marital status.

The discrepancy may be because a man's value as a mate is culture-bound, according to Satoshi Kanazawa, Ph.D., a professor of psychology at the University of Canterbury in New Zealand.

Wealth and social status are men's standard bargaining chips in the search for mates. But BMWs and second homes aren't portable, nor are they universally appreciated. Women in the Amazon rain forest won't be impressed by a Grammy award or a Nobel Prize, nor can men brag to women about their achievements unless they speak the same language, says Kanazawa. Conversely, American women are not likely to be impressed by large penis sheaths.

Evolutionary psychology maintains that women's desirability resides in youth and beauty, attributes that are fairly universal and don't have to be checked by customs officials. To test whether these evolutionary tenets translate into less globe-trotting for single men, Kanazawa examined a survey that detailed the travel itineraries and xenophobic attitudes of more than 16,000 Europeans. Kanazawa found that unmarried men are significantly less likely to travel or want to travel to foreign countries than are unmarried women. They are significantly more likely to find people of other nationalities and races "disturbing." Kanazawa compared these findings with data on unmarried American men, as measured by the General Social Survey. The GSS provided no data on actual travel, but again, single men reported more xenophobic attitudes than did single women.

Kanazawa also found that among Europeans and Americans, men's greater reluctance to travel disappears when they marry. This makes sense: Not only do married men no longer need to attract mates, but a wife may be the lone sexual status symbol that is understood across cultures. In the journal Social Biology, Kanazawa notes that from guppies to humans, females prefer males who have recently mated. So, ironically, "being married is one cross-culturally transportable ornament that signifies men's superior mate value." Kanazawa's data do not, however, reveal whether married men traveled alone or with their spouses. Could it be that traveling solo leads to extramarital mating?

Tags: amazon rain forest, american men, bmws, culture, customs officials, general social survey, grammy award, gss, marriage, nationalities, Nobel Prize, penis sheaths, relationship, satoshi kanazawa, travel, travel itineraries, university of canterbury, unmarried men, unmarried women, xenophobia, xenophobic attitudes, youth and beauty

Current Issue

Everyday Creativity

How to start living creatively and reap the benefits.

Find a Therapist

Search our customized Directory for a licensed professional near you.