Relax

THIS IS, PERHAPS, THE FIRST EDITORIAL THAT'S meant to be read to you, not byyou. So find a partner--preferably one with a soothing voice--get into a comfortable position, and have your partner read the following aloud:

Close your eyes, take a deep breath and exhale very slowly. As the air exits your body, blow away all of your tension, all of your cares, all of the trials of the day .... When the air is gone, breath normally and easily, and let yourself relax ....

Gradually, very gradually, imagine that the world around you is receding, collapsing, drawing itself into a small bundle of images, constantly shrinking until it's a small spot of light against a vast black field. As the image continues to shrink, imagine it carrying with it all of the wrongs and ills and evils of the world--murder, rape, hunger, greed --every wrong you can imagine. Focus on the tiny spot as it lingers, briefly, before it finally disappears, leaving a soothing emptiness, a calming, featureless void....

Gradually a sense of hope, of joy begins to fill your being .... a sense that something wonderful is coming. A new spot appears in the void--a beautiful, shimmering spot that gradually expands in size, increasing your sense of well-being with every shift in its diameter. The new spot swells around you, creating a world of kindness and grace and calm. Wondrous images of fields and hills and happy people fall into place around you, as this new, gentle world takes shape.

On a desk in front of you, you see the shining face of a holy man on the cover of a magazine. A gentle breeze blows the pages open, and you glimpse articles about meditation, about a great hero who walked on the moon, about healers and researchers who have made the world a better place .... Gradually, very gradually, and retaining the sense of wonder and delight that this new world has created in you, open ... your ... eyes ....

Robert Epstein, Ph.D., is editor-in-chief of Psychology Today and host of the magazine's daily radio program, accessible at www.psychtoday.com. He's also University Research Professor at United States International University and Director Emeritus of the Cambridge Center for Behavioral Studies.

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