The Game of Summer

The mythic drums beat loudly every summer. It is the time of baseball thegame, we are reminded once again, that holds a hallowed place in American hearts and minds, that is the touchstone of the national experience and spirit. Indeed, documentary filmmaker Ken Bums has said that baseball ranks right up there with the Civil War as "totally revealing of the American character."

That kind of epic pronouncement tends to be made by men--and it leaves most women scratching their heads. What do they mean? (Maybe, women muse, that baseball is revealing of the American male character? Slow, lumbering, itchy?) Passionate as many women are about the sport, few would ever think to celebrate it, as have men, as the American version of "Norse sagas or legends of the Samurai" or "the very reason we were put on this Earth." Nor would they find it a satisfactory metaphor of life. Men claim the game mimics life's indomitability (three up, three down), its rhythms (bursts of action amidst long periods of languor), its triumphs and tragedies (opportunities seized and lost, fortunes rudely reversed). Women see an absurdity in reducing life to a sward of green, a dirt diamond and a scoreboard.

It all seems musty metaphysics to disguise what really appeals to men about baseball: male bonding at its most primal. Poking around in the male psyche is admittedly a dicey exercise. Psychoanalysts have been loopily off base when they decipher the game as an Oedipal battle of son (the batter) against father (the pitcher) for possession of mother (the ball). Anyone who saw Field of Dreams with an audience of weepy men could hardly miss baseball's essential significance: the game connects sons and fathers. Rather than turn a deaf ear to those mythic drums, maybe women should mourn: Are we the wiser or sadder for not having played with our fathers?

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