Cleanliness Is Next to Sanity?

Cleanliness Is Next to&Sanity?

You'd think it was 1950. Experts are singing the praises of housework and its possibilities for transcendence. But this new take on domestic drudgery has a contemporary twist; this is cleaning as a refuge from hectic and harried lives, even as substitute Prozac. "Simple household tasks such as ironing or doing the laundry can offer drug-free ways of coping with stress," says Vivien Wolsk, Ph.D., a New York psychologist who counsels her clients to turn daily chores into a kind of therapy.

While washing windows, she tells them, imagine that your perceptions are becoming as clear as the glass; while ironing, imagine "smoothing out the wrinkles in your life" (or flattening an irritating coworker). "There's something relaxing, even meditative, about these chores," says Wolsk. "When we clean, we have a visible impact on what we do: something is dirty, and you make it clean."

She's echoed by Margaret Horsfield, a journalist and author of Biting the Dust: The Joys of Housework. "Housework can be used to work out frustration and even grief," says Horsfield, who calls this activity "heartbreak cleaning." Even if you've only washed a load of laundry or a sinkful of dishes, "you can feel that you've accomplished something in this uncontrollable world."

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