Folk Wisdom: Was Grandma Right?

How does folk wisdon, passed down through generations, measure up against decades of research?
By Robert Epstein, published on November 01, 1997 - last reviewed on February 22, 2007
  • "When the cat's away, the mice will play."

    Kids and employees tend to slack off when their parents or supervisors are out of sight.

    • Not clear

    • "Every cloud has a silver lining."

      Not really, but therapy techniques like cognitive restructuring can get you to think so, and that can get you through the day.

    Some evidence casts doubt

    • "Misery loves company."

      Depressed people often shun company, which unfortunately is part of the problem.

    • "There's no accounting for tastes."

      Until you look at upbringing, biochemistry, evolutionary influences, and so on...

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  • "You can't teach an old dog new tricks."

    You'll feel better, think more clearly, and may even live longer if you keep learning throughout life.

    • Scrap heap

    • "Cold hands, warm heart."

      Cold hands, poor circulation. See your physician.

    • "Familiarity breeds contempt."

      People tend to like what's familiar.

    • "A woman's place is in the home."

      Only when artificial barriers keep her there.

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