Sure, you could get that pay raise by working harder. But frankly,
who can be bothered? Particularly when there's an alternative: applying
the lessons of modem psychology to the ancient folk art of sucking up to
your boss.
University of Minnesota psychologist Randall Gordon, Ph.D.,
surveyed four decades of research on "ingratiation"--getting people to
like you. Alas, brownnosing is more likely to boost your popularity than
your paycheck, Gordon reports. Still, by carefully tailoring your
ingratiation efforts, you can shift the odds of a raise in your favor.
Some tips to remember:
o If your boss is only a step above you on the corporate ladder,
the most potent brownnosing techniques are flattery, agreeing with his or
her opinion, and doing favors. If your supervisor is many rungs above
you, however, paying compliments is by far the most effective strategy
for getting him or her to like you. While conforming to a high-status
person's point of view won't win you popularity points, it may help you
get a raise.
o Less is more. Using several brownnosing methods at once isn't as
effective as concentrating on one good one.
o Brownnosing in front of a group is more efficient--if the
observers are women. Men who witness a compliment directed at a third
party tend to like the flatterer less afterward. But female onlookers are
just as impressed as the person being sucked up to.
