Don't rage, be outrageous!

Aging

It's hard growing older in a culture that refuses to accept aging. For women, the challenge is doubled--they're ignored entirely.

The understandable response is rage, insists gerontologist Ruth Harriet Jacobs, Ph.D. But she advocates another approach entirely: be outrageous.

Sure, older women are frustrated, ignored, hurt, and treated as second-class citizens. Still, she says, you can choose to reject negative stereotypes of aging and make life more enjoyable and productive than ever.

In a recent report in the Journal of Geriatric Psychiatry, Jacobs puts forth recommendations for late-life renaissance:

o Do not internalize negative images of older women. Instead, look around at the real, wonderful, older women.

o Start volunteering, creating, traveling, expressing political views, and doing the things you never had time for. It is time to live for you.

o Let go of guilt and overnurturance and be your own first priority. You've really earned it!

o Don't give up your job. Age discrimination worsens every year of a woman's life.

o Keep up your female friendships--don't overrely on your spouse.

o Stay active to avert physical impairment.

PHOTO: Older woman on roller skates.

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