Mother Marian

MWE: I have a book of letters from blacks and whites and rich and poor and Latinos and Jews. Everyone says the same thing: This is what my parents taught me. We forgot what we used to know. We have got to get back to some basics but at the same time recognize that those basics have to be reflected not only in our private lives but in our public lives.

You can't tell parents to teach children the value of work when we don't have jobs and the jobs we have don't pay a decent wage. You can't tell children to achieve and then let them go to broken-down schools with teachers who don't care. We need a consistency of values in our public, corporate, and private lives. That is the challenge of the Nineties.

PT: Your book is full of conviction and faith. How much of it informs what you've done personally?

MWE: It's everything. I grew up in a very religious family and it is the motivating force to every thing I do. I am fortunate to have had adults all around me who really lived their faith, in helping other people and doing the best you can do. The world wasn't so wonderful back then, with segregated rule in the South. But we were never hopeless and we never despaired because we had adults out there struggling with us, being there for us, and buffering us.

It gave you an inner sense of who you are and of making a difference-whether or not the world pays attention to it. Self-worth was internally rather than externally driven. You didn't shoot people to have a jacket. What is that about? Our kids are really the manifestation of the breakdown of internal, spiritual, and community values all around us.

We really have to have a fundamental sea change in values. The Church has lost its bearings as well. It is very clear from our Judeo-Christian tradition that it is wrong to kill children. But we need the church to rediscover its deepest values and to say "it is wrong to let children go hungry in the wealthiest nation in our world." "It is wrong to have children mowed down on street corners, with guns." "Or to have children orphaned by AIDS without the community coming together to do something about it." So, the church is going to have to reexamine its faith and see what its faith dictates. Until you build a strong moral base you cannot have a mass movement for a just society.

PT: You had the privilege of knowing Martin Luther King. What is his single most memorable characteristic, looking back.

MWE: He helped me a lot in my adult life. He was an adult who was a great public figure but who was never afraid to show his vulnerability. I remember the times when he was absolutely terrified or uncertain about what the next step was.

PT. Did he talk about it?

MWE: I feel very lucky to have grown up having interaction with adults who were making change but who were far from perfect beings. That feeling of not being paralyzed by your incredible inadequacy as a human being, which I feel every day, is a part of the legacy that I've gotten from so many of the adult elders. I remember Martin Luther King describing how afraid he was in Cicero and in Chicago.

PT: Physically afraid?

MWE: Physically afraid, which simply means he was a totally human being. I remember many conversations about him being absolutely depressed and not knowing where he was going to go next. The Dr. Kings and all the others who went through extraordinary trials were always scared but functioning, not paralyzed.

You had a community of support and you had a positive purpose-a sense that you were going to be able to carry on. That is again what's so different about the world for kids today. I try to sense what it must be like to be seven or 11 years old and to be walking in today's neighborhoods with gunfire and drug addicts and gangs and no community support, no sense of positive purpose, no hope that things can be different, no vision that things can be different, nobody that you can turn to. What must it be like to live like that?

We have to get back into the struggle into connectedness with adults who are going to get out and fight with them. I knew Robert Kennedy in the last stages of his life and, again, I saw the vulnerability and conviction-and an ability to struggle. Both King and Kennedy were intensely human and intensely connected with kids and listened to them. They were not afraid to be vulnerable and to take risks. They were men of faith who had a sense of right and wrong and an instinctive sense of outrage. The lack of instinctive outrage is the most troublesome thing about American culture today.

PT: Can you name specifically the five or so things you would most like to accomplish in the next year or two?

MWE: What I want to do before the turn of the century is eliminate child and family poverty in this country and place children first. This year, get a comprehensive immunization plan off the ground as a first step towards comprehensive health insurance. Immunization is not a one-term thing. You have to put kids in ongoing primary care. You have to get the health care system in place.

Secondly, I want to build a high-quality, early-childhood system for every parent, and revamp high-quality, full-day, full-year Head Start programs. It's got the framework for comprehensive services; its quality needs to be improved. It needs to be adjusted to take into account the changing family lives today.

PT: Would you broaden Head Start to all children?

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