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Denying Distress

It's as American as peanut butter and jelly and a gun in every household. We take pride in living individualistic, self-contained lives. Yet we do not look inward if it involves emotional pain. Avoiding uncomfortable feelings is virtually a national pastime.

That, reports psychologist Jonathan Shedler, Ph.D., may be costing us our lives. His studies show that failing to attend to psychological distress has direct and measurable effects on our hearts and may be a major factor behind the high rate of death from heart disease in the U.S.

A professor of clinical psychology at Adelphi University's Center for Advanced Psychological Studies, Shedler finds that the world of emotional distress generally plays out three ways. There are those who overtly manifest distress in the face of negative emotions such as insecurity, anger, sadness, and anxiety. There are those who conceal their vulnerability from others, but not from themselves. And there are those people who are so intent on being invulnerable that they conceal even from themselves any signs of psychological discomfort.

But what can be kept from the mind can't be kept from the body. In his studies, among the first to delineate with clarity how our emotions affect our health, people who defensively deny psychological distress display a pattern of exaggerated cardiovascular reactivity linked to coronary artery disease.

Exposed to pictures and phrases known to stir up psychologically threatening issues, they respond with tremendous flux in heart rate and blood pressure. Such flux, says Shedler, creates turbulence and "sheer stress" in the coronary arteries. Over time, such reactivity not only puts a huge workload directly on the heart, it damages the lining of the arteries, paving the way for atherosclerosis.

What is particularly striking is that the distress deniers are considerably more reactive, cardiovascularly speaking, than those people who are manifestly distressed. And they are twice as reactive as people who are truly emotionally healthy. "It is not just psychological distress per se that is a medical risk factor, but rather it is something about the process of denying emotional distress," concludes Shedler.

Negative feelings may make us uncomfortable, but avoiding them is downright destructive to health. Our bodies take the brunt of psychological distress not attended to. "People who deny psychological distress may be paying a very high price for their self-deception."

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