How Compatible Are You?

cooperative, but not selfless.

11 - 28: You see yourself as generally caring and cooperative.

Your partner sees you as a bit more thoughtful and

giving.

11 - 28: You and your partner agree that you are easy to get along

with, although you see yourself as slightly more

thoughtful.

11 - 28: You feel that you are generally thoughtful and easy to

get along. Your partner sees you as more caring and

self-sacrificing.

11 - 28: You feel that you are generally thoughtful and easy to

get along with, but your partner sees you as sometimes

too self-absorbed.

WORK STYLE

0 - 10: You and your partner agree that you meet your goals and

responsibilities.

11 - 28: You see yourself as moderately responsible and

hard-working, but your partner sees you as more dedicated

and serious.

11 - 28: You see yourself as moderately responsible and

hard-working, but your partner sees you as less focused

on goals and responsibilities.

11 - 28: You see yourself as moderately responsible and

hard-working, but your partner sees you as unusually

hard-working and conscientious.

11 - 28: You see yourself as moderately responsible and

hard-working, but your partner sees you as much more

casual about work.

EMOTIONAL STYLE

0 - 10: You and your partner agree that you are somewhat

emotional or affected by stress.

11 - 28: You see yourself as generally stable and able to handle

stress without repressing your feelings. Your partner

sees you as a little more emotional.

11 - 28: You see yourself as generally stable and able to handle

stress without repressing your feelings. Your partner

sees you as even a little calmer.

INTELLECTUAL STYLE

0 - 10: You and your partner agree that you are open to new ideas

in some areas.

11 - 28: You see yourself as open to some new ideas while at other

times preferring the traditional. Your partner described

you as more open to new things.

Self-Image Score 28 - 35

Self-partner difference

EXPRESSIVE STYLE

0 - 7: You and your partner agree that you are very sociable,

energetic, or adventurous.

8 - 13 : You see yourself as very active, enthusiastic, and

sociable, but your partner sees you as more quiet and

reserved.

14 - 20: You see yourself as very active, enthusiastic, and

sociable, but your partner sees you as somewhat reserved

and restrained.

21 - 28: Although you see yourself as very active and adventurous,

your partner sees you as much more reserved and

inner-directed.

INTERPERSONAL STYLE

0 - 7: You and your partner agree that your are very kind,

caring and considerate.

8 - 13 : You and your partner agree that you are caring as

helpful. Your see yourself as somewhat more patient or

giving.

14 - 20: You see yourself as caring and helpful, but your partner

sees you as sometimes difficult and less patient.

21 - 28: You see yourself as a very caring person, but your

partner sees you as sometimes argumentative or

preoccupied with your own problems.

WORK STYLE

0 - 7: You and your partner agree that you are very responsible,

and hard-working.

8 - 13 : You see yourself as unusually hard-working and

responsible. Your partner sees you as a little less

focused.

14 - 20: You see yourself as unusually hard-working and

responsible, but your partner sees you as moderately less

focused.

21 - 28: You see yourself as unusually hard-working and

responsible, but your partner sees you as much less

focused and goal-oriented.

EMOTIONAL STYLE

0 - 7: You and your partner agree that you are very emotional.

8 - 13 : You feel you are very emotional, perhaps highly reactive

to stress. Your partner sees you as somewhat more in

control.

14 - 20: You feel you are very emotional, perhaps highly reactive

to stress. Your partner sees you as more stable and

controlled.

21 - 28: You feel you are very emotional, perhaps highly reactive

to stress. Your partner sees you as very even-tempered

and calm under stress.

INTELLECTUAL STYLE

0 - 7: You and your partner agree that you are quite open-minded

and unconventional.

8 - 13 : You see yourself as quite receptive to new ideas and

possibilities. Your partner sees you as a little more

traditional.

14 - 20: You see yourself as quite receptive to new ideas and

possibilities. Your partner sees you as more rooted in

traditional ideas and values.

21 - 28: You see yourself as quite receptive to new ideas and

possibilities. Your partner see you as much more

conservative and bound to tradition.

The PT/Berkeley Personality And Relationship Survey

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