o It is dangerous for men and women to work alone together after
hours; they tempt fate, and ask for an affair. But the modem workplace so
often dictates that very situation. We frequently have no choice but to
work together. Besides, the man/woman chemistry can stimulate a great
team effort if it stays within acceptable bounds.
o A man isn't capable of spending long periods of time with an
attractive colleague without making sexual advances to her. Men admit
that they can't control the feeling, but deny that it leads them to hit
on every attractive female within their orbit. Besides, modern women
sometimes make the first move. For both sexes, there is something to be
said for delayed gratification--saved for their at home lovers; or
sublimation of sexual energy into something else--like work.
Acknowledging attraction is harmless--it's what we do with it that
counts.
o If work partners are sexually attracted, they can't possible do
the job effectively--their minds will be on sex rasher than work. Sexual
energy can stimulate creativity and actually drive them into a better
working relationship instead of into bed or a sexual harassment
confrontation.
o Managers have an obligation to break up a work team they suspect
of being sexually attracted because embarrassing and disruptive
consequences are inevitable. Managers should deal with actual outcomes,
not fears of what might happen. If productivity suffers, someone
complains or the company is embarrassed managers should intervene.
Otherwise, they should leave workers alone to be productive and enjoy
their work together.
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